Alexis BledelandVincent Kartheiserare getting divorced.
TheMad Menalum filed for divorce from the formerGilmore Girlsstar on Wednesday, PEOPLE has confirmed via Bledel’s rep and the New York’s Putnam County Court, where Kartheiser filed the petition on Aug. 10.
Kartheiser’s reps did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s request for comment, and Bledel had no further comment at this time.
Bledel, 40, and Kartheiser, 43, met on theMad Mensetin 2012. Kartheiser played Pete Campbell, and Bledel appeared in season 5 as Campbell’s mistress Beth Dawes.
Shortly after Bledel appeared on the show in 2012, the couple werespotted kissing. They privately tied the knot in 2014.
Alexis Bledel and Vincent Kartheiser.Charles Sykes/Invision for the Television Academy/AP

Bledel and Kartheiser havekept their relationship private, rarely making public appearances together or speaking about each other in the press. The pair also avoids use of social media, so personal posts of their relationship can’t be found.
Vincent Kartheiser.Michael Kovac/Getty

Kartheiser expanded on this mindset in a conversation withVulture. “It’s something I realized about the most important things in my life,” Kartheiser said in 2014. “If I share them with the world and I open that door to their fuming anger that they need to get out or their adoration that they want to flaunt, it lessens it. It cheapens it; it weakens it. And it’s magical, love, and all of that is profoundly spiritual, and it just doesn’t feel right.”

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While the celebrity parents still haven’t introduced their child to the world, Bledel’s formerGilmore GirlscostarScott Pattersonhad some insight into her life as a mother.
Alexis Bledel and Vincent Kartheiser on Mad Men.HBO

“She’s really blossomed as a woman and now she’s a proud new mother and married and happy,” Patterson toldGlamour. “We’re comparing notes because my son [born July 2014] is about a year and a half older than her young son. I’m showing her photos and videos and what to expect. We’re just really enjoying each other’s company.”
Us Weeklywas first to report Kartheiser’s divorce filing.
source: people.com