Paul Wesley and Wife Ines de Ramon Quietly Separate After 3 Years of Marriage

The Vampire DiariesstarPaul Wesleyhas filed for divorce from estranged wife Ines de Ramon — who is now romantically linked toBrad Pitt.

Wesley, 40, and jewelry designer de Ramon, 32, weremarriedin 2019 and announced news of their split in September.

“The decision to separate is mutual and occurred five months ago,” the rep told PEOPLE.

However, according to the divorce papers, the exact date of their split is still to be legally determined.

Paul Wesley and Ines De Ramon.Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - SEPTEMBER 14: Paul Wesley And Ines De Ramon attend the Mercy For Animals 20th Anniversary Gala at The Shrine Auditorium on September 14, 2019 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty Images)

Wesley, who filed the paperwork in Los Angeles Superior Court under his born surname Wasilewski, and de Ramon do not have any children together.

The filing comes as PEOPLE confirmed the designer received followers for Valentine’s Day from Pitt, 59.

The pair have been dating since last year with a source telling PEOPLE in November that Pitt and de Ramon “have been dating for a few months.”

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A rep for the actor has not commented on their relationship and neither the actor or de Ramon have spoken publicly.

Meanwhile, Wesley has been linked with model Natalie Kuckenburg.

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In November,the two were spotted sharing a kissand holding hands as they enjoyed a romantic dinner during a vacation in Italy.

source: people.com