Jane Fondasays she’s learned a lot about love and marriage over the years. Her biggest lesson? “Marriage is f—ing hard!“The actress and activist, 85, married French filmmaker Roger Vadim in 1965. During their eight-year marriage, the two lived in Paris and welcomed daughterVanessa. “He had tremendous charm but we were very different,” she tells PEOPLE.Fonda then wed activist Tom Hayden in 1973 and the two had sonTroy Garity. “I learned all the things that I consider the most valuable from Tom,” she says of Hayden, whom she split with in 1990.She found love again in 1991 with CNN founderTed Turner. “He’s outrageous and hysterically funny,” she says of Turner, whom she was married to for 10 years.Today, Fonda is single and grateful for her past relationships and the lessons she’s learned. But, she says, “My life would be very different if I’d noticed red flags.“Yu TsaiNever miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.“You have to understand nobody is perfect,” she says. “And you have to decide: Can I live with this? Can we work with each other on this or is this a deal-breaker? Force yourself to notice if there are any red flags. What kind of a relationship do they have with their mother? Is alcohol a problem? Is gambling a problem?“The Oscar-winning star, who has four films out this year, including the comedyBook Club: The Next Chapter, in theaters May 12, says her best advice is to make sure you understand what you are stepping into at the start of any relationship.“The expression ‘I fell in love’ — what’s wrong with that sentence? Fell! You don’t want to fall. You want to walk toward him or her on two feet as a whole human being and be very aware of what you’re getting into,” she says.Yu TsaiTheGrace and Frankiestar says she’scurrently the “happiest I’ve ever been,” pointing to the fun she had making the sequel to her 2019 rom-com hitBook Clubwith friendsDiane Keaton,Candice BergenandMary Steenburgenin Italy. Says Fonda, “It was a dream come true.“For more on Jane Fonda, pick up this week’s issue ofPEOPLE,on newsstands Friday.
Jane Fondasays she’s learned a lot about love and marriage over the years. Her biggest lesson? “Marriage is f—ing hard!”
The actress and activist, 85, married French filmmaker Roger Vadim in 1965. During their eight-year marriage, the two lived in Paris and welcomed daughterVanessa. “He had tremendous charm but we were very different,” she tells PEOPLE.
Fonda then wed activist Tom Hayden in 1973 and the two had sonTroy Garity. “I learned all the things that I consider the most valuable from Tom,” she says of Hayden, whom she split with in 1990.
She found love again in 1991 with CNN founderTed Turner. “He’s outrageous and hysterically funny,” she says of Turner, whom she was married to for 10 years.
Today, Fonda is single and grateful for her past relationships and the lessons she’s learned. But, she says, “My life would be very different if I’d noticed red flags.”
Yu Tsai
Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.
“You have to understand nobody is perfect,” she says. “And you have to decide: Can I live with this? Can we work with each other on this or is this a deal-breaker? Force yourself to notice if there are any red flags. What kind of a relationship do they have with their mother? Is alcohol a problem? Is gambling a problem?”
The Oscar-winning star, who has four films out this year, including the comedyBook Club: The Next Chapter, in theaters May 12, says her best advice is to make sure you understand what you are stepping into at the start of any relationship.
“The expression ‘I fell in love’ — what’s wrong with that sentence? Fell! You don’t want to fall. You want to walk toward him or her on two feet as a whole human being and be very aware of what you’re getting into,” she says.
TheGrace and Frankiestar says she’scurrently the “happiest I’ve ever been,” pointing to the fun she had making the sequel to her 2019 rom-com hitBook Clubwith friendsDiane Keaton,Candice BergenandMary Steenburgenin Italy. Says Fonda, “It was a dream come true.”
For more on Jane Fonda, pick up this week’s issue ofPEOPLE,on newsstands Friday.
source: people.com
